Thursday, October 31, 2024
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I had the pleasure of meeting Barry three years ago and was instantly taken by his engaging personality. It was clear that this was a man who was engaging with the world around him. A man of many layers, it took not a little time to try and piece his history together. His easygoing personality, talents, and of course his ready smile, would set the table for conversation on myriad topics. As a visitor to Wilton, I looked forward to seeing Barry and Adrienne each visit to enjoy conversation over a meal and a glass of wine. Barry had a healthy appetite for life and a pretty good one at the table too.
It was clear that B&A, as they became known to me, cared deeply for each other. One could easily finish the other’s sentence and seemed so in tune with each other. I know that when we heard the news about Barry’s illness, it was a blow to us all. Barry did his best to march forward in the face of an unfair situation and inspired those around him to put the emphasis on what matters most in life.
I will miss Barry and will always remember him, his thoughtfulness and of course his big smile. I offer my heartfelt condolences to Adrienne and the family. I know it won’t be the same when I visit Wilton but look forward to sharing more memories of Barry with Adrienne and raising a glass to Barry; he would appreciate that.
With lots of love,
John
